Free Christmas Desktop Wallpaper for You to Download!

I like making stuff. Following my short venture in full-time youth ministry, I discovered one of the hardest parts of the job for me was I was never finished; you never got to the point where you looked at a person and thought, “My work here is done.” After the last few years in the design industry, I’ve really enjoyed that there comes a time with each project when you have to call it quits, ship the product and call it done.

The other day, I needed some sort of creative outlet—to make something just for my own sanity. So I broke out my camera, played around in Photoshop, and came up with this image. To get the shot, I set our WillowTree figures of Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus on a table, placed my camera on a tripod, and used the cool Lensbaby lens my brother bought me. It has a star shaped aperture that turns any blurred lights into stars, so I set everything up in front of our Christmas tree.Free Christmas Desktop Wallpaper of wooden figures in front of star shaped lights.

As a gift to you this holiday season for taking the time to read Frayed Parent, I’ve turned this image into a Christmas wallpaper that’s free for you to download. (Please only use this for your own personal, computer-decorating purposes; don’t try to manipulate it, use it for your church/office newsletter, or resell it. I’d rather not have Willow Tree come after we with lawyers). Included in the download package are a couple of different screen resolutions, so hopefully you can find one that works for you and your computer.

And if you happen to think someone else might like it, don’t hesitate to tell them about this freebie. Thanks again for reading this year!

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The makings of a Super Hero: Behind the Scenes of our “Incredibles” Halloween.

An image of my desktop while working on recreating the Incredibles' logo on the computerSometime back in early September, I randomly got to thinking about what we should do for our son’s Halloween costume this year. It’s the first year that he’s actually big enough to really get into it. My wife was perusing the costume racks at our local secondhand kid’s clothing store, and after reluctantly displaying the best they had to offer I knew she was hoping to settle for whatever seemed decently priced. At that moment, it struck me—we could do better with our own ingenuity.

Understand that I wasn’t about to roll my child in toilet paper and call him a mummy, or put a cardboard box on him and call him cereal. While I appreciate Mr. Adam Sandler’s advice, we wouldn’t be resorting to Pickle-Mustache Man or any of the equivalent. This was something that would take some serious thought & effort, not to mention that all of the money spent would be completely justifiable.

I don’t remember exactly when it struck me, but my son has a crazy obsession with Pixar’s “The Incredibles,” especially Dash and his ability to run on water. Since my son has long blonde hair like Dash, I knew it was only too fitting. I immediately went into my design research mode, clipped a few pics into an Evernote folder and promptly presented the idea to my wife, leaving no room for question—this was the perfect Halloween costume for our son this year, and it would be flawlessly executed!

My wife & son ironing the Incredibles logo onto a shirtI recreated the logo in Illustrator for printing at home, and my wife had the brilliant idea to get some iron-on printer paper. We’d simply iron the “Incredibles” logo onto some cheap red shirts—it was so simple, we could do shirts for ourselves & go as a watered down Mr. & Mrs. Incredible, comfortably sporting the shirt & jeans on Halloween without looking like complete nerds. Our son would love it!

I realized the logo was simple enough that we could easily round out our entire Halloween with an Incredibles themed pumpkin. I’d been dying to try my hand at our first layered pumpkin, and the color scheme (yellow, orange & black) are the actual colors a layered pumpkin can produce. We simply took one of the test-logos I printed to size the shirts and used it as our pumpkin template.

My son digging into a pumpkinMy son, letting the dog lick the pumpkin guts off the spoonMy son, punching holes in the pumpkin with our templateMy son & I both hard at work carving a pumpkinThe finished pumpkin carvingAn image of my son in his Halloween costumeAll that remained was to complete our son’s outfit. He already had a pair of red sweatpants he could wear, and we figured some black foam & elastic bands would be cheap & easy to create the ingenious disguise—a small black mask around the eyes. This meant Mr. & Mrs. Incredible got masks too. My wife found some black felt that we could Velcro around his wrists & shins, and after having nearly given up all hope, we stumbled across some boys black underwear that would go over the red pants. Black shoes & gloves would add the finishing touches, but those turned-out to be harder to find than we thought.

Three kids in costume walking in a lineThe only flaw in our plan was that our son HATED his mask; he adamantly refused to put it on. So, we opted for some black face paint despite the fact it would likely end-up smeared by the end of the night. After coloring a few smilie-faces on his hands to convince him the coloring thing wasn’t torture, he let us color a mask outline on his face. He kept laughing and turning away saying it tickled, so we got what we could and called it finished.

An image of my family in our costumes for HalloweenMy son, looking upset that he didn't get to ring the doorbellThe costumes & pumpkin were a phenomenal success! The best part of the evening was when a lady looked at our son, exclaiming, “Oh, it’s Mr. Incredible!” He immediately turned around, legs spread in your typical superhero charging stance, pointed at the logo on his chest & yelled, “DASH!” Then he proceeded to shout, “Water! Water!” while pointing at the pavement and took off in a sprint. Unfortunately, our evening of Trick-or-Treating came to an early close as Dash apparently wasn’t fast enough to beat his cousin, Iron Man, to the doors. He really wanted to knock, but couldn’t make it up the driveways in time. After the crying began & wouldn’t stop, his tears started smearing his make-up, not to mention our reputation in the neighborhood as Mr. & Mrs. Incredible.

I have to admit, I’m a little disappointed that after all that work it’s already over, but we’ve got some cool new shirts that we made ourselves on the cheap, & my son has his first superhero outfit to wear around the house (thank you for the inspiration, Under the Sycamore!). Oh yeah, and we’ve already got a list of ideas brainstormed for next year’s family Halloween theme and I can’t wait!

Pumpkin Carving 101: Forget the store bought templates. Make your own!

Pumpkin carved to look like Bob the Tomato

Bob the Tomato-Pumpkin. Used with permission.

“What do we want to carve?” Growing-up our family would buy the pre-packaged pumpkin carving kits with the cheap templates, and we’d just pick a picture and start cutting. I still enjoyed it then, but I never had anything invested in these boring old templates of comic eyes and goofy mouths. Paying $5 for tools that you’ll toss in favor of your kitchen utensils, and a book full of templates that you’ll use only one of? That just makes it harder for me to get motivated to carve a pumpkin. Then, my brother showed me another way.

A pumpkin carved to look like Toothless from How to Train Your Dragon

Toothless (from HTTYD). Used with permission.

In years past, he’d start by sketching out some ideas on paper weeks ahead of time, typically around whatever was interesting to him or his kids. He’s definitely an artist at heart, and would come up with some awesome ideas. Then he’d pick one, and tweak what he drew to make sure that it would work as a carving (with pumpkin designs, you have to be careful that all your parts are connected, otherwise you get a big hole. Carving is enough work on it’s own—I don’t really want to go through all the crazy work of using thumbtacks and fishline to hang the pieces, do you?). Finally, he’d freehand draw the image he wanted on the pumpkin and start carving, with some of the more intricate designs using layers. These things are not just pumpkins, they’re fan art!

A pumpkin carved to look like a creature from "Where the Wild Things Are"

Wild Thing (from WTWTA). Used with permission.

Now, I don’t have the drawing skills of my brother by any means, and I also have the unfortunate habit of putting things off. If you’re anything like me then I’m pretty sure you still don’t even have a pumpkin yet—the only reason we do this year is because grandma & grandpa came to visit and everyone in our family went to a pumpkin patch weeks ago—but our pumpkin has started to rot, so I guess we need a new one. Our tradition for carving pumpkins has evolved over the years into a crazy-last minute scramble of “Okay, yeah. Let’s do it tonight.” That makes it tough to plan ahead—Someday I’ll get there. “Next time, Gadget… Next time!”

In order to come up with something that I feel is worth digging into (Ha! Get it? Digging?… sorry), but lacking the foresight and skills of my brother, I have a different solution: Illustrator! Last year, my son was really into Chuggington, a train show on the Disney channel, so I took an image into Illustrator, converted it to a two-color graphic and printed a template that puts the store bought ones to shame. Now, as a graphic designer, this is bad practice and I would never do it—but I also wouldn’t have found myself trying to toss something together last minute either. As a dad in need of the perfect, last minute pumpkin, it did the trick. While I admit it didn’t turn out exactly as I had hoped, my son (who was just over a year old at the time) sat in front of it grinning from ear to ear and repeating, “TRAIN! TRAIN!”

Three images of my son with his pumpkin, carved to look like a Chuggington Train

Images © Jamin Garoutte

The pumpking carving template for this year's Incredible's logo

2011 Pumpkin Template

This year, my son’s favorite is Pixar’s “The Incredibles,” especially Dash! My wife and I had the idea to buy a couple of plain, red shirts and I’d recreate the logo as a printable iron-on (keep your eye opened for a future Halloween costume post). Having never layered a pumpkin carving before, I figured the simplicity of the logo would give me the perfect opportunity to test this technique out, making our pumpkin the perfect tie-in to our Halloween theme for this year. I’ll hopefully post pictures of how it all turns out soon. Maybe next year I’ll be prepared enough to even offer you guys some custom templates as a free download.

So tell me, what do you carve on your pumpkins?